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Black Gold-Letter Spanking Paddle
Black Gold-Letter Spanking Paddle
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Bold Words with a Statement BDSM Paddle
This black faux leather BDSM paddle comes stamped with bold gold lettering—each strike is not only felt but also seen. Available in SPANK, BDSM, DOM, and BITCH variations, every swing delivers impact with a message. Strong enough for real play yet stylish enough to impress, this paddle is perfect for those who enjoy mixing discipline with symbolism.
Sex Paddle for Roleplay, Training, and Humiliation Scenes
With lengths ranging from 31.5 to 35.5 cm and widths from 3.8 to 10.8 cm, these paddles are compact yet effective. The gold-letter design makes each version unique: SPANK for playful teasing, BDSM for lifestyle pride, DOM for authority, and BITCH for bold humiliation play. This versatile sex paddle turns ordinary impact into a statement of power.
Strong Design with a Clear Message
- Material: PU leather with gold metallic lettering
- Color: Black with gold print
- Total Lengths & Widths:
- SPANK — 12.4 in × 1.8 in
- BDSM — 14.0 in × 1.5 in
- DOM — 13.4 in × 4.3 in
- BITCH — 13.0 in × 2.8 in
- Features: Bold lettering, strong double-layer feel, stylish metallic design
- Ideal For: Roleplay, humiliation, lifestyle BDSM, collectors of kinky toys
Paddle Impact Scale
★★★★☆☆☆☆☆☆
These paddles provide a medium sting with a loud crack, making them perfect for scenes that emphasize both pain and psychology. The raised letters add extra texture, intensifying sensation with each strike. Beyond the physical, the gold words reinforce authority and roleplay—turning every blow into both discipline and declaration.
Dom/mes can use this paddle for teasing taps, training strikes, or ritual punishment. Its balance of pain and presence ensures it works for intermediate players and adventurous beginners alike.
BDSM Learning – The Power of Words in Impact Play
BDSM is more than sensation—it’s also about symbolism. Paddles with words like DOM or BITCH bring language into the scene, blending physical discipline with psychological reinforcement. Submissives not only feel the strike but also see the label, deepening the emotional impact of their role.
For Dom/mes, word paddles provide opportunities for ritual, humiliation, and playfulness. They can mark a submissive with identity, or use the paddle as a verbal cue before punishment. This layering of sound, sensation, and meaning highlights the creative and theatrical side of BDSM, where toys become instruments of both control and storytelling.
Complementary Items
Pair this spanking paddle with a BDSM collar to strengthen roleplay dynamics, or add a ball gag for humiliation-focused scenes. For sensation contrast, combine it with a flogger from the Floggers & Whips series to alternate between stingy strikes and rolling thuds.








Spanking Paddle: Open Your BDSM Life
Compared with other BDSM toys, a spanking paddle is the most effortless way to begin impact play: quick to learn, highly controllable, and safer by design. Its wide striking surface and clear acoustic feedback make rhythm and intensity easy to read; by choosing the right material and thickness, you can fine-tune the balance of thud and sting. That versatility serves curious beginners and seasoned players alike—from small bedroom moments to more ritual, scene-based play. Compact, easy to clean, and discreet to store, a paddle deepens intimacy with layered sensation and trust. As a foundation, a classic spanking board pairs naturally with bondage essentials (cuffs, restraints) and body-safe low-temperature candles to enrich your BDSM journey with texture, temperature, and emotion—always guided by consent and care.
Why Choose a Spanking Paddle from SEXPADDLE

Size Guide|Spanking Paddle
The Spanking Paddle Experience: Material, Weight & Impact
Our spanking paddles are made fromfull-grain leatheror premium vegan materials. We obsess over thickness and stiffness to balance sting and thud. Want a crisp, slapping sound? You’ve got it. Prefer a deeper impact that settles in the skin? We’ve tuned that too.
We also focus on weight distribution. Heavier paddles generate momentum with less effort. Lighter ones provide tighter control. Whatever your style, your body—and your partner’s—will notice the difference.
This isn’t decoration. It’s not just aesthetics. It’s the core of impact communication, and we make sure the message lands exactly how you intend.
Spanking Paddles Designed for Power, Play & Connection
Every BDSM scene is a story. Our spanking paddles are your punctuation marks—decisive, expressive, deliberate. Designed withD/s relationshipsin mind, these tools support punishment, obedience training, ritual scenes, and sensual submission alike.
Our designs prioritize swing comfort, safe edges, and scene flow. They’re compact enough to store discreetly and durable enough for repeated use. Because we know your gear isn’t a one-off prop. It’s an extension of your style and your authority.
Worry-Free Guarantee & Discreet Support
We offer a full365-day warrantyon all spanking paddles. If your product has a defect, we fix it—no hassle, no forms, no delay. We believe in respect. And standing behind our gear is part of that respect.
Our shipping is100% discreet. Plain packaging, no labels, no branding. Whether you’re in New York or Tokyo, your privacy comes first. We’ve shipped to over 40 countries without issue.
And if you ever need help? You’ll talk toreal kinksters. People who live the lifestyle and know what works. We don’t judge. We listen, explain, and support—because when you’re building trust through play, support matters just as much as the gear.
Paddle Care & Storage
The Spanking Paddle Experience: Material, Weight & Impact
Our spanking paddles are made fromfull-grain leatheror premium vegan materials. We obsess over thickness and stiffness to balance sting and thud. Want a crisp, slapping sound? You’ve got it. Prefer a deeper impact that settles in the skin? We’ve tuned that too.
We also focus on weight distribution. Heavier paddles generate momentum with less effort. Lighter ones provide tighter control. Whatever your style, your body—and your partner’s—will notice the difference.
This isn’t decoration. It’s not just aesthetics. It’s the core of impact communication, and we make sure the message lands exactly how you intend.
Spanking Paddles Designed for Power, Play & Connection
Every BDSM scene is a story. Our spanking paddles are your punctuation marks—decisive, expressive, deliberate. Designed withD/s relationshipsin mind, these tools support punishment, obedience training, ritual scenes, and sensual submission alike.
Our designs prioritize swing comfort, safe edges, and scene flow. They’re compact enough to store discreetly and durable enough for repeated use. Because we know your gear isn’t a one-off prop. It’s an extension of your style and your authority.
Worry-Free Guarantee & Discreet Support
We offer a full365-day warrantyon all spanking paddles. If your product has a defect, we fix it—no hassle, no forms, no delay. We believe in respect. And standing behind our gear is part of that respect.
Our shipping is100% discreet. Plain packaging, no labels, no branding. Whether you’re in New York or Tokyo, your privacy comes first. We’ve shipped to over 40 countries without issue.
And if you ever need help? You’ll talk toreal kinksters. People who live the lifestyle and know what works. We don’t judge. We listen, explain, and support—because when you’re building trust through play, support matters just as much as the gear.
Beginner Basics
The Spanking Paddle Experience: Material, Weight & Impact
Our spanking paddles are made fromfull-grain leatheror premium vegan materials. We obsess over thickness and stiffness to balance sting and thud. Want a crisp, slapping sound? You’ve got it. Prefer a deeper impact that settles in the skin? We’ve tuned that too.
We also focus on weight distribution. Heavier paddles generate momentum with less effort. Lighter ones provide tighter control. Whatever your style, your body—and your partner’s—will notice the difference.
This isn’t decoration. It’s not just aesthetics. It’s the core of impact communication, and we make sure the message lands exactly how you intend.
Spanking Paddles Designed for Power, Play & Connection
Every BDSM scene is a story. Our spanking paddles are your punctuation marks—decisive, expressive, deliberate. Designed withD/s relationshipsin mind, these tools support punishment, obedience training, ritual scenes, and sensual submission alike.
Our designs prioritize swing comfort, safe edges, and scene flow. They’re compact enough to store discreetly and durable enough for repeated use. Because we know your gear isn’t a one-off prop. It’s an extension of your style and your authority.
Worry-Free Guarantee & Discreet Support
We offer a full365-day warrantyon all spanking paddles. If your product has a defect, we fix it—no hassle, no forms, no delay. We believe in respect. And standing behind our gear is part of that respect.
Our shipping is100% discreet. Plain packaging, no labels, no branding. Whether you’re in New York or Tokyo, your privacy comes first. We’ve shipped to over 40 countries without issue.
And if you ever need help? You’ll talk toreal kinksters. People who live the lifestyle and know what works. We don’t judge. We listen, explain, and support—because when you’re building trust through play, support matters just as much as the gear.
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More Than Just a Paddle: Designed to Hit Right
Crafted for real BDSM play, SEXPADDLE paddles balance weight, grip, and sting—built to feel right in every scene.