Collection: BDSM Collars

Choosing the right size for a BDSM collar is essential for comfort, safety, and long-term wear. Whether you’re selecting a structured slave collar for training or a discreet day collar for everyday use, proper fit ensures both control and comfort.

Start by measuring the base of the neck with a soft tape. Add one finger’s width to allow natural movement and breathing. A well-fitted leather BDSM collar should sit snugly without pressing into the throat or restricting swallowing.

After fastening, test the range of motion. Turn the head side to side, look up and down, and take several deep breaths. For rigid designs such as a posture collar or any lockable collar, ensure there is no pinching, numbness, or pressure on the jawline.

If the collar includes D-rings or O-rings, gently apply light tension to confirm stability before attaching a leash. Proper sizing not only improves comfort but also preserves the structure and lifespan of the collar.

Q: Can a BDSM collar be worn every day?
A: Yes. Many people choose a day collar designed for extended wear. Look for soft lining, rounded edges, and adjustable sizing. A lightweight BDSM collar made from quality leather or padded materials is best for daily comfort.

Q: What is the difference between a slave collar and a day collar?

A: A slave collar is often symbolic of ownership or commitment within a D/s dynamic and may feature heavier construction or locking hardware. A day collar is more discreet, designed to be worn publicly while still representing submission or connection.

Q: How should I care for my leather BDSM collar?

A: Clean your leather BDSM collar regularly with a damp cloth and mild soap. Allow it to air dry fully, then apply leather conditioner to prevent cracking. Avoid soaking or exposing it to extreme heat.

Q: Are posture collars safe for long sessions?

A: A properly fitted posture collar can be worn during scenes and training sessions, but it should not restrict breathing or blood flow. Always remove the collar if you experience numbness, tingling, or pressure on the jaw or throat.

Q: Are lockable collars secure?

A: A well-designed lockable collar offers strong closure and stability when used responsibly. Always keep the key accessible and avoid locking collars for long periods without supervision.

Q: What type of collar is best for sexual play?

A: A comfortable sex collar should provide secure attachment points for light pulling or leash play while maintaining skin comfort. Soft leather designs with smooth edges and padded interiors are ideal.